35-year-old tries to hide infidelity from family by saying her husband is leaving her due to weight gain, he sets the record straight behind her back: ‘They thought I was shallow’

Not feeling comfortable in your body is the worst feeling. Be it from weight gain, weight loss, or another unexpected change, it can be incredibly difficult to deal with because there really is no way to escape your body and the feeling of living inside of it. You must either make an active effort to do something in order to change your body to a state you're comfortable with, or make peace with the changes; either option has its challenges. If you find yourself struggling to adjust to your body's fluctuations, it is best to talk about it with a professional to create a game plan and take things as slowly as possible. Either way, the road to feeling "okay" can be long and difficult.

Weight gain usually comes with the territory after having a baby; even my mother, the most confident woman I know, struggled with feeling like herself for years after having me. Despite her struggles, she never used her low self-esteem to sabotage her marriage. However, other people out there will point at just about anything to avoid taking accountability for their actions.

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AITA for telling my in-laws we're getting divorced because my wife cheated on me since they thought I was leaving her because of her weight?

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Low self-esteem is not an excuse for cheating, but maybe she is rationalizing her behavior in this way. Having her entire family believe her lie and constantly validate that narrative was definitely not helping her, either.
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Her lies were nothing more than an invitation for him to tell the truth! She did this to herself.
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